I know that this is a bit off topic, but it is still a spiritual matter, and still has it’s place in the society to come, and I believe a big place. The topic is Internet Sex, which can either be free or a paid service. and involves self-pleasuring while looking at another person of your choice doing the same thing, and often, telling them what to do and what you would like to see “Come closer to the camera” etc.
I am sure that most people would fine this either disgusting or scandalous, to the point of outlawing it in some societies. But in American Society, with it’s multitude of societal, bacteriological, and mental problems, think of it this way: If a person can get off and have a perfectly good time (not as good as the real thing of course but read on) with a live model on their computer, they eliminate all the following risks:
Falling into SEXUAL OBSESSIONS, not “love” with a successive bunch of jerks
Suffering from intense pain and broken hearts when the obsessional part of these relationship ends for usually one party before the other, and a party is left broken hearted. (A broken heart can be so painful that it feels like a stake driven into your heart, aches for longer than by-pass surgery, and often takes a couple of years to get completely over, while the other party goes on much more calmly with their lives
Remember the following two poems by Samuel Hoffenstein: ”You love me and I love you, and a dozen others too” ”When at last she says she’s his, shivering and sighing, and he says his passion, is limitless, undying, lady make a note of this: one of you is lying!”
These greatly illustrate the dangers of these repeatitive affairs that come about as the result of the music industry mainly whose songs, written and popularized for profit with no regard for the mental and emotional health of the people, talk about I love you you’ll be mine mine forever nobody else but you never leave me I love you I love you I love you so constantly that the majority of these poor people are left with the impression that if they are not in love at any moment, they are lacking. How little they suspect that being alone is so much better than being in the company of users and jerks.
So with Internet web-cam sex, they can see anything they want, and masturbate away at it in privacy, have good orgasms because they control them, and then slide on either to the next fantasy partner or to bed for a while. The divorce rate in California surpasses 90%. Would you spend $10,000 on the FLOWERS ALONE for a California wedding?”
Also webcam sex
stops the spread of diseases like AIDS (presumably, if it is all what they say), the ever spreading and incurable Hepatitas C, Hepatitas A, B,D,E,F,G ad nauseum ( yes, they have found these all exist)
Stops Herpes
Stops minor bacteriological infections like gonorrhea, clamidia, and non specific urethritis,
And stops the potentially devastating effects of Syphylis.
On top of that, it can be plenty of fun. I guarantee that as years go by and more and more people open their eyes to this mode of sexual expression, if the economy doesn’t implode completely, and it is our opinion that it will be based in much more spiritual matters but sex is ever present.
So if you are having repeating bad experience with dating, sexual relationships, abusive lovers, disappointments, I can help you get to the bottom of your trouble and nullify it when this site has it’s advice board going, but in the mean time, love yourself, stay away from the jerks, and pay the man his $30 for a months worth of unrestricted webcam partners. It is timely and not the least bit destructive. I know this was a big diversion, blog wise but I believe in this as part of a transmission away from the ridiculous life of the 2010’s If you have been praying for a genuine partner, and not getting results, that is covered in the next session. REMEMBER, IF IT IS IN YOUR DESTINY TO MEET A TRUE LOVE, LIFE PARTNER OR SOUL MATE, YOU WILL BE ANYWAY, EVEN IF YOU ARE DOING SEX BY WEBCAM. It will not make one bit of difference. But tread carefully in terms of who knows you do this, as it is a gossipy subject for those who are not in the know.
Have fun and remember- if you were given your sex organs only for pro-creation, they would NOT BE THERE for pleasure or available for pleasure the rest of the time. They were given us by God as a main key in making life on earth tolerable. Life in a corporal body that we must maintain for 70-90 years. And with the advances being made in medicine, who knows what the life expectancy of a man like me, 57 years old, will eventually become? And let’s expand this discussion into -
ERECTILE DISFUNCTION MEDICATIONS.
These medications are making it possible for men who are impotent for various reasons, including blood pressure issues, diabetes, kidney problems, nerve problems, psychological issues, and medication issues, to perform sexually as well as they did when they were in their twenties …. in some or most cases. And many people who do not necessarily need them, or who do NOT need them, are taking them, for the intensity that they lend to the sexual experience. Other than any long term health problems that may arise from taking too many of these pills too often, I think that they are also a good addition to man’s sexual arsenal.
Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis are the three main medications in question. I am in the group that does not really need them but has tried them, and have had some incredibly wonderful sex experiences with them. I like Cialis, which has a very long half life as a chemical and is good for three days, the best. This is also because for me it is the strongest. Levitra is number two for me and Viagra the least effective. These medications come in various doses, for instance 2,5,10, and 20 milligrams. I do not know how doctors decide when to prescribe the smaller medications, but I always take the twenty milligram preparations.
These are expensive pills, sometimes costing up to $19 dollars a piece from the pharmacy, and a loss of finances can occur if someone takes one, sure in the knowledge that in an hour he will be safe and comfy with a woman at home or at her home or somewhere else in bed, but then something else comes up and the date or meeting is broken after the pill has been swallowed. This occurs if one is not very careful and is very wasteful, as the drug alone will not do much of anything. These drugs only work when the mind puts out it’s “sex time” neuro-transmission, in other words, when sex is available and is soon to begin. When this neuro-transmission occurs, a maximum blood flow is sent into the penis, making for the maximum size and hardness that that organ is capable of. It is fun. And it makes repeat sessions of intercourse possible. So it is enjoyable for the man and the woman. It does not cause premature ejaculation, unless this is already an issue. Even if it is an issue, it is not what is causing it.
I am not a doctor and cannot recommend prescription medications to anyone; however I can say that my experience with these medications has been positive and enjoyable, and a man does not have to wait until he is flatline impotent to take them. I think they are good stuff for all involved.